As a rule, people like nice faces, appearances, and we’re drawn to the way they look. No one likes to be with a “not so good-looking” man or woman. And that’s the beginning. As time goes by, we do not give as much importance to the physical appearance as to the person as they really are. People come to realize that the way one looks has nothing to do with someone’s personality. We really do not talk to the face, we talk to the inner person. And if we find we do not like that inner person, then the outward appearance ceases to be of any significant importance, or even appealing.
People that want to have a permanent and lasting relationship with anybody must know that the only ingredient is ACCEPTANCE! No individual man or woman is perfect. We all have quirks, defects, and idiosyncrasies that are unchangeable and very difficult to accept.
When time passes by these defects become insurmountable and they will terminate any relationship regardless of who you relate! This includes family members and more so husbands or wives!
Basically, the three ingredients for any successful relationship are:
- Acceptance
- Tolerance
- Forgiveness
You cannot achieve happiness in a relationship without these three key ingredients.