When married couples have been together for a while, they discover certain things about each other that are intolerable and these things are destroying their union. They decide that going to a marry counselor might correct their problems. They expect that the counselor will help them to see the “light”. Unfortunately the counselor cannot side with one or the other. They must remain neutral and hope that by guiding the conversation the two parties will come to an understanding.

The most problematic issue is that people are what they are and they cannot change because it is ingrained deeply inside and cannot be modified or altered under any circumstances. It my belief that the three most important words in any relationship are: acceptance, tolerance, and forgiveness. These three words comprise all the requisites for a good relationship.

Most civilized people in this country know very well that President Trump lacks social skills, diplomacy, tactfulness, and common decency. According to what I believe, when Trump was a very young person growing up, his parents failed to educate him in the proper way to relate to his peers. For that reason, when he verbally abuses anybody, demeans or condescends, he is not aware that he is doing so because it is just part of his nature to behave that way. I am not condoning what he is doing, but I believe it would be extremely difficult for him, at his advanced age, to learn the indispensable social skills needed for someone in his current position. I don’t blame him because he himself is a victim of his own upbringing and environment.

Could you live with yourself? You will have to make a clone of yourself and placing him  in front of you talk to him  on any subject  you would like and see what is his response. I have tried and I am  fine with myself!

In this age and time it seems that everybody needs a doctor.  As I have mentioned before, the human body can get sick from the top of the head to the bottom of the feet. There are doctors specializing in all kinds of sicknesses.  Almost everyone trusts that their doctor can help them to cure whatever ailment the body has come down with.  The biggest problem that a doctor may have with the patient is that there are quite a few medications (or maybe a hundred or more) for a specific ailment.  So, the doctor  prescribes whatever medication he or she thinks may be good for the patient.  Unfortunately, all medications have side effects;  some are mild, others are more acute, and still others are very dangerous.   For this reason, a doctor tells the patient to come back in a week or sooner if any side effects have created serious problems.

The greatest state of being that a person can achieve is to have peace of mind.  It is invaluable.

I love pets.  The most common pets are the dog and the cat. There are many  kinds of breeds and pedigrees. I believe it is fine to have a cat or a dog as a pet. I also believe that once you get a pet most of us treat them as if they are part of the family and talk to them as if they understand, especially dogs –  they seem to sense what you are telling them.  The benefit of having a pet is, you have a constant companion.  Besides, you can talk to them and tell them your troubles and pains so you can release your anger and frustration or, when you’re happy, share you happiness with them.  Also, they do not talk back, put you down, call you names, or give you grief.  And, they protect you, even with their lives, when you might be in danger. The only problem is,  we become too much attached to them and we lose our freedom to go special places or take a long vacation without worrying about them. The caveat about having a pet is the fact that they are like a small child that never grow up or become independent! However, one kind of pet that I would not ever own is the infamous pit bull.  You know why?  Under certain circumstances, and if the owners don’t have full control of them, they could seriously maim or even kill any person or any child that is available to them and happens to catch their attention.  Pit bull owners mistakenly think that their dogs are only very sweet – at least they are to them.   They do not realize, or perhaps simply do not want to acknowledge the inherent danger in owning such a potentially vicious “pet”.   So pit bull owners beware.

BY THE WAY…….

If people  could treat other people like they treat their pets,we would live in an almost perfect world!

No one can answer the following questions with regard to religious beliefs:

1. How do you communicate with your soul or spirit?
2. How old is your soul or spirit?
3. Where does your soul or spirit reside after you die?
4. How old will your soul or spirit be after you have been dead for a hundred years?
5. Does a new born baby have a baby soul or spirit?
6. Can you see a soul or spirit and know the shape of it?
7. Can a soul communicate with another soul or spirit; if so, how?
8. Is your soul or spirit and your mind the same thing?
9. What would  you call a congregation of souls or spirit?
10. Can you tell the difference between a man or a woman soul?
11. Could a soul have the same five basic senses (sight, hearing, smell, taste and touch) as a person alive?
12. Do people of different races have different kinds of souls?
13. Can a soul go to sleep and have dreams?
14. Can a soul travel to any location just by wishing? or use a form of transportation?
15. Are all souls created equal?
16. Are all souls the same size?
17. Can a soul believe in different gods?
18. Can a soul feel hot or cold?
19. Can a soul learn about  life?
20. Can a soul be punished? If so, in what way? >

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I believe that every American born person is entitled to the resources that are in the continental USA.  The petroleum should be exploited by the government and sell to the people ONLY for the cost of extracting the petroleum and refining it. Unfortunately, that  is not the case. Fantastic contracts are made with the Oil producers which make BILLIONS of dollars in profit, pay very little tax and speculators play the game with the price of oil by deciding when to bring it up or down depending of the whim of certain conditions or elements that would like a quick profit.  In reality the users of gasoline are the real victims of the government and gigantic oil companies.  I am not a socialist or communist.   I only want what is best for the people that inhabit this great country!

The universe that we know (all the inhabitants of the world) knows that there is an infinity but the human mind  is unable to comprehend the most mysterious and complex idea of something like the infinite.  How any one can imagine that any direction or reference point is impossible to follow because from any point to any other point is 360 degrees.

Astronomers with the most powerful telescopes have reached objects  thousand of light years away and yet your comparison with the infinite is just few inches away!

I believe that it is better not to think about it because you do reach any place!

The best way to rate the majority of things (including people) are the numbers zero to ten:  ZERO being the worst, ONE is bad (a little bit better than zero), followed by TWO which is not too bad, yet it could be somewhat tolerable, THREE is not quite good, FOUR is of course more acceptable (like a B movie), FIVE is fair, SIX is on the way to being good, SEVEN is OK, EIGHT is good, NINE is almost great, and finally,  TEN is excellent !

However, most hospitals use the ten rating system for pain just the opposite:   ZERO is no pain, ONE to TWO is moderate discomfort, THREE to FOUR is mild pain, FIVE to SIX is moderate pain, SEVEN to EIGHT is severe pain, and TEN is extreme pain.